Daily Devotional
God Wants More for Our Marriages

“In this is love, not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.”

1 John 4:10-11


Ponder This

When you were dating, you likely had a list of desires in another person. You thought, “I want somebody good-looking or beautiful. I want somebody who thinks I’m funny. I want somebody with a good personality. I want somebody with certain physical attributes and perhaps certain intellectual gifts; somebody who can make me feel good.” And the time comes when you finally say to that young lady or that young man, “I love you.” That may be true, but some people say this to mean, “I want you because you meet a particular need in my life.” That kind of love is not the love God is talking about that binds husbands and wives together. As a matter of fact, that kind of love is very conditional. And if those are the reasons you got married—because of somebody’s charm or beauty—then your marriage is in danger. Now I’m not saying charm, wit, and beauty are not important, but those things fade.

Can you see how dangerous that kind of conditional love is to a marriage? It is rooted in self. God calls us to more.

  • What is the difference between unconditional love and conditional love?
  • What are some ways we tend to love people conditionally?

Practice This

Thank someone who has shown you unconditional love.

FOR YOUR GIFT TO THE MINISTRY

Moments of Truth Devotional

Learn to walk with Jesus moment by moment each day.

The 365 daily readings in this devotional were developed directly from the sound biblical teaching of Pastor Adrian Rogers. His way of simply stating the truth of Jesus Christ is unparalleled. Page after page you’ll get something new to think about and to talk to God about in your moments with Him.